Women have really been letting me down lately. I can understand if you feel we have no chemistry and a second date isn't wanted or necessary, but at least SAY SOMETHING. Refusing to return my texts without any explanation is just cowardice. If you can't even pick up the phone to say, "I don't think we're right for each other", how in hell can you be expected to maintain the communication level for a relationship of ANY kind?
I also had a date today with a girl who's parents were supposed to be leaving town from their visit. They don't live here. She said they would leave in the morning, date time rolls around and they're still there. She tells me, "I don't want to ask when they're leaving because I'll feel like I'm running them off." Oh, so you don't want to hurt your parents feelings by "running them off", but throwing mine down the garbage disposal by canceling our date is OK. Riiiiiiiiiiiiight. What the hell kind of logic is that? I see where I rate on the priority scale.
I'm debating dropping this girl like a bad apple. Not that one's parents are not important, but if you can't keep your appointments because Mom and Dad are overstaying their welcome, what can you be expected to do? I'm sure my parents would understand if I already had arrangements and I needed them to go on their marry. Besides, it's not like they just came to town, they've been here for days. Hell, I don't even know if she told them she had other plans, so they probably don't even know they're disrupting them. I don't feel particularly important right now, and that's never a good way to start a relationship.
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I honestly think you should get over it. one or 2 dates shouldn't be long enough to elicit such a strong reaction out of you. A couple weeks ago I went on a date with a guy then never heard from him again. I thought he was feeling me but I guess not. I don't know what happened to make him ignore my calls and texts after the date, but I'm not sitting around mad about it. Move on and charge it to the game. Shit happens. If you don't like someone or found that you didn't have enough chemistry or whatever then you just won't see them again. It just isn't a big deal. People who get really pissed about things like that just come off as unattractive because you're so touchy and overly sensitive, it hints at possible emotional instability. Maybe this girl dodged a bullet.1