So I went out with a guy on Friday night from an online site.
We had only been speaking via email and text for a few days but I thought 'why not'.
The date was a coffee meet and lasted 3 hours. He picked me up from my place, we ate and drank, then we went for a drive and sat and kissed for a while. When he dropped me home he said 'so let's do this again sometime?' and I said 'sure'.
It's now Monday and seeing as we already showed interest, does the '3 day contact' rule apply? I haven't heard from him since he dropped me off that night.
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I agree with some of the people below, he's probably dating a few different people and trying to get a better understanding of what type of girl is right for him. Online dating is just a chance to get to know people so don't expect every guy you go out with to be the one. That also means be a little more reserved. If you can't handle hooking up and never hearing from a guy again.. Then obviously don't hook up with them the first night. But, if you can just accept the fact that you met some random guy, had some fun, and left it at that... then by all means continue to do it.
This guy might call again to hangout, but be warned he may just be looking for some more of that fun.2