My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. Everything was fine.
Until last week, he started acting distant, he hasn't texted me first at all, he replied to all my texts but he won't continue the conversation. I know he had a job interview on Tuesday so I try not to be too clingy so just one message every one to two days, wishing him good luck and asking him how he's doing. On Tuesday I asked him if he wanted to hang out like on Thursday, he said "could do, but not sure since I was offered a second interview on Friday and not sure if I am going." I told him to tell me after he has decided, and on Wednesday he turned me down, saying he can't make it. I asked if he has decided to go, he said he was still thinking and really stressed right now.
I texted him again on Friday asking how he's doing, and I didn't text him or ask him out over the weekend, as my friend suggested me to let him text me first. But now on Monday, still nothing from him. So I called him, and he didn't pick up. He soon texted me "hey throat real sore, feeling a bit sick." I am not sure if I should believe it since he always tells me when he doesn't feel well and bitches to me about it. So I texted him back saying I didn't know 'cause he usually tells me beforehand. and his reason is "it's just started a few hrs ago"
And I think he went out partying on sat night (tho no solid proof) but he didn't drunk text me neither (he used to do it, though I usually bitch about it when he drunk call me and wake me up at 4am)
Everything was fine, we are in good terms. It's just since he is aware of an interview coming up (Around 10 days ago), he doesn't text me as much, he did hang out with me once (which I initiated) which is like a week ago, and we were still sweet together.
I don't know if this is a sign of him breaking up with me. :(
What should I do?
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For someone who says she's trying not to be clingy, you're acting like a clingy girl.
Just because the guy doesn't want to talk to you, doesn't mean he's breaking up with you.
Girls and grown women never seem to learn this truth about guys - we're not communicators like girls are - we don't talk for the sake of talking. We don't enjoy it. We have to have something to say or a reason to talk. Girls don't need a reason. They just talk.
When your guy breaks up with you, it'll be clear and obvious. On the other hand if you want to break up with him because you don't like a guy who doesn't talk as much as you want.. then break up with him. Just don't be a coward about it and try to claim it's him who is breaking up with you.0