So I met this girl on a dating site, I thought she was cute so I sent here a message that was completely respectful and such, when she responded it was about 2 weeks later that we met in person, we went to see monsters university after that I invited her over my place to hang out, by the way I am 19, a virgin, and I still live with my parents, and we sat on my back deck talking for a few hours and I felt that we have a strong connection but I am also so terrified of screwing this up cause I want to be in a relationship with her. I prefer girls give me some advice since they may be able to give me better advice, but how do I show her that I am interested in her without coming off as desperate or obsessive?
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You try to have the same confidence you would if you were speaking to a girl that is just a friend. I've noticed that about myself (when I was single). I am a fun outgoing person who loves to meet new people. If I don't have a romantic interest in you, you get to see my whole personality. If I do have an interest in you, I get shy, concerned I'll say something wrong, etc. The thing is, if that other person IS the right person, then they aren't going to think you are stupid for what you say. So, to not come off as obssessive or desperate, you give her a day or two after the date, tell her you had fun and you'd like to see her again and MAKE plans. No need to talk everyday, and no need to text everyday, just go with what feels right. If she's digging you, she's not going to be noticing 'mistakes' you think you make. She'll be just thrilled to be spending time with you and any little blunder will probably be seen as cute, rather than annoying or clingy.0