The timing in my love life sucks. I feel like I have met the one, however in the next few years it will be extremely difficult to see him. Our age also makes us super insecure about being separated for so long and we are in a dilemma of how to proceed in the relationship with me going off to college. I do not believe in the excuse that the way life takes its course can be justified by saying, "Oh whatever happens is meant to be" because things change for the better and for the worse and we do not always come out with the best circumstance.
So do you ever feel the same way and how do you deal with knowing the one has gotten away because of various things neither of you can control due to failed timing?
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My current boyfriend I believe is "the one". He is the perfect guy, super romantic, respects me, treats me like a princess, he's absolutely in every way perfect.
But I met him during a bad break-up he was having, and...well...this is going to sound weird, but..due to the break-up, he did some sexual things with his stepsister. I'm not really sure why, he said because he felt pressured by her (she has a huge thing for him) and he felt vulnerable. He's really sorry about it and it wasn't while we were dating and he's assured me he has no feelings for her, so I've forgiven him.
However, she is not forgiving so easily and she has been trying to sabotage our relationship.
While I do think he's "the one", it's a very, VERY difficult situation for me to handle, however I'm trying my very hardest (and he is as well) to make it work, because if we can make it through this, we both know we will be happy for the rest of our lives.0
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