Is it because you don't want to commit to just one girl, AND want to play the field? Don't like her as much as you tell her you do? Look for one thing, and get it and move on? Or feel like you're not getting it quick enough and go for someone who gives it up easily? And if that's the case, do you stick around w that one? and why? Or is it been there done that time for the next?
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Well,this is hard.
Usually, a guy would look around while dating for three main reasons.
1) Inexperienced guys have this tendency, because they're new in the game. The haven't really learnt the ideals of committing to an exclusive relationship so they keep an eye out needlessly. Usually this isn't destructive, unless it becomes the case of (2).
2)These are the insecure ones, who believe they have to play "the game" too. They are paranoid and scared that one day their girl may get bored and leave while they have no-one to fall back on. They do this because, most of the time, they really are boring the girl to death.
3)These are the players. They fancy themselves too cool for one chick. They like the thrill of keeping a lot of women and hiding one from all the others.
I have several girls I like, but I want to commit solely to only one, so I deal subtly to decide the one I really want to care for, yet I'm also careful not to lead the others on and hurt them later. Unfortunately, many guys do not feel the need for such discretion.3