This guy is an abominable kisser. It's like he doesn't get it... or he is just... I don't even know. He doesn't slobber all over... but it's like he misses my mouth... like he's not really kissing me haha. There like soft little pecs over and over again on my mouth, but never actual kisses... if that makes sense... and his idea of french kissing is me sucking on his tongue... outside of his mouth!
I don't get it. Part of me wants to be like just stop kissing me and I will kiss you. He doesn't follow any of my movements and his movements are so weird that I can't even follow them.
How do I teach him without offending him?
It's too the point that I pityt him. How could any girl be turned on by his kissing? THAT BAD people. That bad. He's got a great personality... I mean, I guess that's good...
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Here are some suggestions:
A) Tell him gently that you don't like the way he kisses ie. "sometimes when you kiss me I feel like your missing my mouth...etc."
B) Show him kissing instruction videos on YouTube or other internet videos and suggest that you try it together
C) tell him you want to try something cool with kissing and tell him to follow what you do and then kiss him properly and tell him explicitly that it only works when you do it this way
whatever way you do it, when he kisses you properly provide some form of reward incentive for it., ie. that felt like a great kiss, or smile and say that was awesome, the better he kisses you the longer the kissing continues, or anything else you can think of that is fairly natural and subtle no punishments just rewards for good kissing. This is called operant conditioning btw.0