I am in a relationship with an amazing man caring, sweet and loving but the problem is there's a girl who texts him who I think is a bit obsessive. She tells him every little problem in her life and I mean EVERYTHING. She text him the other day "*Name* I'm really scared can you help me?" And I think that's weird since she hasn't known him very long at all. She texts him things like "You're the only person I trust to help me" and "I'm so glad I have you". Is it just me or is this dodgy? I just want to know am I reading to much into this or is she obsessed?
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I have been married for over 8 years (to my first love) well and only but I can tell you, I was 21 when I got married. There was a female that called him and he knew right off the bat to tell her to go away. It's all in what you're willing to tolerate. Your sweet and caring man should know that twos a relationship 3 is a crowd.
I would pull him aside and tell him straight out, Either you're committed to me solely and you can live with out this girl or we need to part ways and you can go to her. If he is unwilling to part with her my best advice is to leave him if you truly cannot tolerate it. I don't see why any woman would be willing to tolerate her husband/boyfriend etc... talking like this to another woman. It's a recipe for disaster.
also it says a lot about how much this girl respects you and how much he respects you for not telling her to go away.0