So I dated this guy for a couple weeks now, but never got to serious, thing is he was studying for a huge exam and under a lot of pressure so he asked for kinda of a timeout, which I didn't really mind to give him, just for 2 weeks. We talked after a week because it was the day of his exam and he told me that the timeout didn't matter, that he missed me tons and blah blah, thing is after that he hasn't talked to me again.
I told him I wanted to meet up so we could speak it all through, so I can tell him I don't wanna keep dating cause he sorta made me feel used, kinda like when I feel like having you I will ring you? I am no booty call of anyone hahaha, so thing is Do you girls/guys think I should set the meet up, or wait for him to contact me? and should I come out straight and tell him what I think of all this thing, or just keep it to myself and give him a classic excuse, like I don't have that kind of feelings for you anymore?
- Yes, I should give him a callVote A
- No, I should wait till he reaches meVote B
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Honestly, if I were you, I wouldn't dump a guy just based on the fact that he had an exam and was focused on it for a couple weeks. How long has it been since his exam? You guys haven't been dating very long as you said, so he's probably a little nervous about the whole thing still.
If I were you - and again I'm not you - I would give him one more chance to prove himself. If I were in his position, I'd be a little indignant if I guy dumped me,because I was being a responsible student. Ask him out on one more date! If he says he's busy flat out, then you can tell him that you'd like to move on. It could be though, that he's been planning to call you for the last couple days and hasn't gotten around to it yet!
If he's been dodging your phone calls, that's one thing. But just because he's been genuinely busy the last couple weeks is no reason to cut a guy off completely just yet.
Give him one more chance :)0