we have been going out for a few weeks. we like each other but she is not sure if she wants to be serious with me for one specific reason.
she says right now its casual and fun
no kissing or sex
she has hinted on going on a trip but she cannot afford it,
part of me wants to go with her but we are stil in early stage of going out.
is a trip good or bad? overseas trip.
but recently brought it up again.
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Whoa whoa whoa man! What are you thinking? Great question...but terrible idea! Taking a girl whom you've been out on a few dates is CRAZY! I mean you've kissed by now right? I wouldn't take anyone girl on a trip with me unless we've been dating at least a year! She's not even your girlfriend right? Your not exclusive yet? Then to mention its an over seas trip! NO WAY man. Besides...sorry to bring bad news..but I don't think this girl is into you like you think. I get the no sex...but no kissing..and talking about casual. No kissing, and casual tells me she has low interest in you bro. The trip is a huge NO GO. I think a future with this chick looks very very dim at this point. IMO you have more to worry about than whether you should take her on a freaking vacation! You've gotta...slow down...take a deep breath...think about what you're saying, and considering doing. Personally, I'd be freaked out if a girl wanted to go on a trip with me, or asked me to go with her at this stage in the game.1