Via online dating I met a guy who woo'ed me. Flowers, Chocolates, Teddy Bear, Perfume.
Then I meet him - he's going bald and quite thin. Not the tanned, muscley, full-head-of-hair younger version of him.
I overlook the physicaly shortcomings because hello I'm human and have them too. He was enigmatic, vivacious, loud, engaging, full of jokes and - drunk.
I stupidly slept with him on the first night after going home alone (he called incessantly and finally I allowed him to come over).
I saw him two weeks later for a booty call after I realized he's not serious about dating. It had been a while for me and I thought oh well I will take it for what it is and leave it at that - but he wanted to 'hang out' afterward. He revealed that his brother is part of a gang in Sydney, shows me photos of 'the new Chopper Reid' - a notorious Sydney criminal who he's friends with. Blasts 'Hed P.E' all while talking about how cool him and his 'gang' are. How they are brutal but, all nice to him so - they're cool. (IDIOT!) in my head I'm thinking um buddy it's only a matter of time before they turn on you. you might have a nice apartment and money now, but they are using you and your 'trucking' business for their own agenda.
So - from being a self-confessed 'mummys boy' to 'gang member facilitator' over the few weeks I knew him, (he owns a warehouse they 'use' as a bikie club)...um. Isn't that false advertising?! And how the hell do people get so good at REELING you in and then droppig you flat with reality?! I REALLy thought he was a good, sound, humble business man! This is so far away from what I expected!
Needless to say - shall never be booty calling him - again. And I've turned off online dating for a while...
maybe it really is better to just be single and wait. so many freaks out there.
Oh! and he bragged about how he and these gangs guys see cop cars from his apartment and smash fruit and random objects on their cars. or throw lemons at peoples heads...he's 28.
Kill me now. Seriously. ARGH!
- WOW! He's a keeper!! LOL :)Vote A
- He may be a nice guy, just caught up in wrong crowd. Don't get involved.Vote B
- Get involved - you'll be dead in a few months!Vote C
- Drop him like a sack of sh*t fast. He's lostVote D
- He may be a nice guy, just caught up in wrong crowd. Let him chase you now.Vote E