Over the past three years, I've been single. I know I've only grown into my skin more and I look better than ever. I constantly have guys hitting on me..even girls! Three guys at work like me. Two are taken.
I don't understand why I haven't been out on a date in over a year/haven't had a boyfriend in a long time. I really feel like guys like me because I'm a novelty: I listen to old music, play guitar, and I have tattoos. So I'm fun to flirt with and look at but nobody actually dates me!
What am I doing wrong? I feel like I do take enough initiative and make myself available and open to dating.
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You might have a lot of wonderful traits that guys would love, but I don't think the reasons you gave are likely to attract a guy. What do you mean by girls are hitting on you? Do they think you are gay, or are they just complementing you? The reason I ask is because if girls are hitting on you, maybe you look like you are not into guys. So maybe guys figure there is no point in asking you even if they do like you.1