When I try to hangout with a guy friend, he usually thinks I'm interested in him and that it's really a date. If it was a date I would have said so. I hangout with girls most of the time but I'd like to hang with guys as well. Should I just stop trying to hangout with guys?
Most Helpful Girl
A lot of people don't believe that men and women can be just friends. And a lot of them simply don't live their lives that way. They live - same sex=friends, opposite sex=romance.
So if that person lives by those rules, they'll always assume romance is involved when dealing with the opposite sex.
I'd just make it clear that you're only interested in friendship. Sometimes it's necessary to spell things out, haha!1
- Show AllShow Less