So there's this girl who I have been texting a lot since we got to be friends on a trip however she lives a few hours away so we can't see each other much, if at all. She will usually start the conversation or at least keep it going well with longer texts and questions. However, every so often (like 1-2 times a day or so) she will text a response with only a few words in it and is very hard to respond to such as "I know!" or stuff like that. When I respond (which I don't always do) she replies quickly and starts being open again. Why is she doing this and does it mean she is not interested in me as anything more than a friend? We don't really flirt much over text, however in the week that I met her she would sit near me a lot and jokingly hit me and tickle me and stuff. Not sure if that changes anything. Also we have been texting almost everyday all day for like a week and a half now.
- Interested40% (2)0% (0)29% (2)Vote
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- Other/See results60% (3)50% (1)57% (4)Vote
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I've been in this girl's shoes before. I'm not guaranteeing that this is what she's feeling, but in my case, I occasionally replied with short answers because I was always the one starting the conversation, and I was always the one who seemed to keep it going. So I wanted to give the guy a chance to put some effort in, if that makes sense. I wanted to be sure that he wanted to talk to me too, and I wasn't just annoying him!
With the tickling and stuff, it sounds like she likes you. Only if she doesn't do that with any other guy though, she could just be a flirt.
Good luck :-)0