I've been meeting up with this guy but we always go dutch regardless of who initiates the meet up. More often than not he initiates them though. We also get to and leave the places in our own. So these aren't dates at all right?
Should I ask him what we are or just enjoy the company?
- Just hanging outVote A
- DatingVote B
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Sounds like it just hanging out to me. I always pick my female friends up and pay for them but that's just me I don't think the lady should pay even on what we call mate dates. But if she wants to pay or put some money towards the day/evening I'm to let her if she feels bad not doing so.
You have to ask him see what he says0