I've been through the dating world I guess...I'm Asian - feel as though I am less and less attracted to Caucasian guys. I have friends in all races but I had some bad experiences...
I hate to stereotype what my preferences are now. I still believe that there is bad and good in every race. but I feel more and more disappointed...the first boyfriend I had physically assaulted me, the few after that , well used or cheated on me. I have my boyfriend...now but I feel less attracted to him.
I wonder if there's a psychological term for this. I know every one has their preferences but can it just be that I have had too many heart breaking experiences and rude encounters with males of this cultural 'background' or ancestry?
I couldn't date anyone for awhile because I was hurt pretty bad. My current guy is very loving. but I sometimes wonder... are people better off dating within their race? I am also tired of some stereotype that I'm 'submissive'. I am far from it though- personally I know my strengths but...
Have you guys ever stopped liking anyone because of the experiences you had with a particular group...again and again disappointed you till you were turned off by them?
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Hmm in my opinion you should be turned off to individuals not treat them as a group. If I had bad experiences with some white girls I wouldn't just stop dating them and move onto Hispanic girls. Race isn't indicative of personality or habits. Just because you've dated some guys who were trashy doesn't mean that ALL men of a certain race are trashy.
You have to watch out for some white guys who are into Asian girls too. There are some who will only date you because of stereotypes instead of who you are as an individual. Please keep an eye out for jerks like that who would treat you like an object instead of a human being.2