who is over 24/7.
Ladies, I need some advice. Why would she not want to be somewhere else? My roommate is more than ready to follow her around the world, yet she always comes over at 7 (when she's off from work) and then stays the night.
I would like to know what this girl is trying to do... Is she trying to move in? Does she have insecurity issues?
Have you ever been so attached to someone, you could not spend a free moment without them?
Would she be offended if I told her she could only be over for X amount of days? Best way to break it to her if that's what needs to happen?
My roommate is one of those guys who feels lucky to have ANY girl next to him. So, I feel like if I go to him with my issues, he would pick her side, and I would be in the dog house for the rest of eternity.
Would skipping over your boyfriend to talk to you directly about being in my personal space every day offend you?
She hasn't done anything against me personally, but for the same reason why I don't have 10 friends over every night, I don't think she should be either.
Am I in the right here? or just being obnoxious and should put up with her being around after 7pm for the rest of our roommate-relationship?
And from my roommates point of view: he gets all the bj's in the world so he doesn't mind her awkwardly being there. Thing is, I don't get that kind of service... so...
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Did you and your roommate discuss how it would be handled if one of you entered a serious relationship while sharing a place? Or are you guys kinda learning and setting up ground rules as you go?
You should go straight to him first and give him the opportunity to make the situation work. Clearly it's unfair to you, and I'd be totally pissed if I was in your shoes, too. A couple nights a week is one thing, but every damn night? Hell no!2
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