I've been seeing a girl for about 2 months now. We hangout once or twice a week but haven't discussed if we are an item. Also we haven't had sex. I have stayed over at her place several times but no sex. Every time I think it's going to happen it doesn't. It seems odd to me after 2 months that we haven't.
Then this past weekend I met a girl at a coworkers BBQ. She was cute and she asked me if I wanted to attend an art exhibit with her.
Is that ok?
The first girl and I haven't had sex or had any talks on being exclusive. I know opinions vary on this stuff but I wanted to know what people would say.
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I think there is a lack of comminication between you and the first girl. Is the reason you want the other girl is becuase the first girl hasn't given you sex yet? I'm sort of assuming this is the case, please correct me if I'm wrong. Like justclaire said, maybe she is afraid or doesn't know what you want. Maybe she thinks you don't want sex. I've been dating a guy for almost 2 months myself and he is moving slow with me as well. He wouldn't initiate anything with me so I finally just asked him and he told me he was respecting me. I think communication is key.
I guess you two aren't exclusive yet so I would say it is OK to go out with the other girl but I think you are doing the first girl an injustice by not talking to her0