When my guy friend and I hang out, he's really nice and flirty with me, but makes no effort to text me or anything. Could he just be interested when he sees me? or if we were to be in a relationship, would he still not text/call me?
Also, I know for a fact he doesn't want a "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am" kinda thing either. He's not that kind of guy.
Most Helpful Guy
1. Make sure you're not confusing flirty with friendly.
2. If he's one of those nervous/shy kind of guys, he's going to be very hesitant to 'overstep his boundaries.' Make it overtly clear that you're interested in him and see what happens. Even if you throw the loudest signals in the world at him, he still may not work up the guts to do anything about it.
3. He may just not like to text. I prefer to keep phone communication to a minimum, but will often send flirty/naughty messages, because I know it gets my girl worked up/makes her feel wanted, etc. If you ever end up dating him, make sure to communicate this to him, as he may not have much experience with what a woman wants. I'm willing to bet that if he knows you want it, he'll want it as well.0