ask they guy out and pay for his meal? My dating rule is if I've taken a girl out, and paid for 8 dates without her offering to take me out which includes paying, then I figure I'm with a "taker", and I drop her.
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i offer to go dutch from the first date. but the guys I've dated wouldn't let me pay at all. so I just slipped my half of the money in their jacket pocket or whatever- it's very easy lol. I want to pay for myself. I only feel comfortable being paid for when we're already exclusive and we've reached the point where we can pay for each other or treat each other.