Do you prefer to go dutch or have the guy pay for the date?
Personally I prefer to go dutch, especially on the first or second dates. I don't want guys to think I'm using them. I also want to show them that I'm independent and that I will never rip off a guy. Although at some point I don't mind if he offers to pay. Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
- Yes it's getting more commonVote A
- Nope, only broke guys do thatVote B
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My girlfriend and I went dutch from the very first date. Her reasoning was pretty similar to yours. She wanted dates to be something we could both enjoy together rather than something that she needed to repay to me. Also she knew that many guys resent paying even if they show no sign of resentment, and she wanted to show that she was independent.