2 months ago my boyfriend got drunk and made out with a random girl at a party. He told me via text the next day and said how sorry he was blah blah blah. Instead of responding, I blocked him on fb, blocked his number and never spoke to him again, not even to respond to his text or to tell him I want tobreak up. He has come to my house crying (my roommate sent him away and I didn't see or speak to him). He has called my house repeatedly, made new accounts on fb to message me, and used other people's phones to call and text me since I blocked his number. He went so far as to go to my parents house to ask my mom to speak to me for him and he has seen me at collee and tried to talk to me but I literally just look right through him as though he's not even there. I have no sympathy for him, but I feel like a bad person because knowing how upset he is makes me happy and I think he deserves it. I don't feel bad when he cried over me like a little girl. Am I being too hard on him?
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i think you are being a bit hard in the sense that you are treating him like he doesn't exist.
breaking up because of infidelity is your choice. some may take him back some wouldn't
but to just completely shut him out is a bit far. we are humans, we make mistakes, but we are also all worthy of foregiveness. it doesn't mean you take him back, but it means you let him voice his feelings, you work on forgiving and maybe it also gives you a chance to explain precisely why you can't be with him and why he needs to give you space0