after 4 dates I have gotten her flowers she liked them I surprised her and sent her candy in the mail. After all this she still don't text me, or say what's up. She wouldn't think to ask me to go out with her fellow workers or stuff like that. She will tell me when I can kiss her. I have kissed her cheek many times, which she likes haha. I don't know what else I can do to get her interested? She says not ready for meeting her co workers /friends just yet. She did just move here for a job. I know she is very busy. But will all my effort pay off lol? Maybe its only been 4 dates, over a 1.5 months time. And its too soon?
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Aww trust me what you're doing is really sweet, and a genuinely lovely girl, that likes you will really appreciate it. It does sound a little bit like she is keeping you at a distance. This may be because she isn't really interested or she just wants to take it slowly and isn't ready yet. Maybe she has been hurt in the past. I would give it a little more time. Don't smother her too much, because she may feel a bit pressurised and then run off. Make sure she can see you have other things to do like go out with your friends and hobbies. I wouldn't text her for a little while and wait for her to come to you. You deserve just as a good a treatment as you are giving her.
Just a little more time, I know it is hard when you like someone. If she doesn't text you, you will know that she wasn't interested, and if she does, it means she definitely likes you and has been thinking about you.
Hope it works out for you, whatever the case though, DON'T EVER STOP being a gentlemen. There are very few around these days.