I'm dating someone I've reconnected with since years ago. We've seen each other three times and the chemistry is way too hot to ignore. The sex is mind-blowing, but there's also so much sweetness and compatibility between us in all the other moments. We've talked about our dreams and hopes and we've snuggled on the couch, listened to music together, stared out at the sky together, etc. all that good, fluffy stuff . . . but I can't go without screwing his brains out every time I see him.
I told him that I don't want to be taken for just a hook-up and he says that's not the case, but I wonder if anyone's ever dated someone and the sex was so hot that it became all about that? Or should I just shut up and enjoy the ride?
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well, now your lusting over him, its going to mentally bad for you I guess, for you to be only concentrating on the sexual intimacy between you two. in the long run, if you are thinking that far, I would say to think about whether you want to spend more time with the guy, since it sounds like you have pretty awesome stuff going on between the two of you (not talking about the mind blowing sex). sex should just be an add-on to the relationship dynamic, not the whole reason to be in the relationship, you can still enjoy the sex, but you shouldn't make it your priority in the relationship of you two.0
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