I've talked to some girls who say they really don't like affection, cuddling, and so on. To me I think the media has made girls look like they like it but I know some girls just aren't that type.
If you don't like affection, cuddling, and so on can you tell me what about it causes you not to want to?
Or maybe you know of a girl who hates affection, maybe you could explain why she doesn't if you know her well enough?
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I am a girl and I am not in any of this things. It may be because I am too young to understand "true love", but I don't think I'll ever like staying in one place and just holding hands and hugging and stuff. Some females have been too affected by the movies, books, etc., but truth be told, all these are made to show a "real love". And girls start to think if they don't do that it's not true. Bullsh*t, ya know. But back to the question .. I don't like affection, cuddling, ..., because whenever I do something like this there is an awkward silence, I feel uncomfortable and all I want to is to get away from this person, no matter if like him or not. I feel like this dude is getting way to nice and I prefer a boy who would rather have fun and talk then a guy who'll hold my hand, write poetry and "look deep in my eyes". I need a friend, I'd have deeper feelings for, then a hopeless romantic I can't get a converstaion straight with. And I know I am getting too deep in this and not all guys who like affection are some poetry writers and stuff, but when they start to kiss my nose and cheeks and blah. I automatiqually start to think they are like this. Voila.0