Went out with a date with this girl. She was trying a bit too hard to be all proper and polite and say all the right things and I have to admit I found her rather awkward and boring.
I checked her Facebook page and she's actually a very funny and witty girl. I was wondering why I never met this funny girl on Facebook during the date.
Is it me? Maybe she wasn't that into me. Maybe I just didn't bring out the best in her? Should I take it personally?
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Either she was just shy/nervous, or she's simply different. On Facebook you have all the time in the world to come up with funny jokes or witty comments. In real life, face to face, your mind simply doesn't always click in 0.5 seconds for a funny joke. I don't know how many times I've gone over past conversations in my head, and then realized that I missed an opportunity to say something really funny just because I didn't think about it back then.
Also, don't take it personally. She'll probably loosen up a bit the more you see her (that is, if you want to). Give her some time. :)1