i went on one date with this guy from the internet. he was fine. he was nice, we had certain things in common but I just felt zero spark or sexual attraction. he hugged me and I felt nothing. I felt zero desire to stand closer. he just didn't interest or attract me mentally or physically.
some people say give dates a second chance unless they are really bad it wasn't really bad but after a few hours I realized I really don't feel interested and the idea of kissing him turns me off.
so, I guess I should end it then, right? he has been texting me a lot but we don't talk on the phone. so can I just send him a nice text like "hey, I've been thinking and I don't think we are right for each other. it was nice to meet you, but I just want to be honest with you and not lead you on. "
help? I hate these things because I always feel bad dumping people.
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After one date? No one's feelings will get hurt after one date! Don't feel bad.
It's the usual case that meeting someone in 'real life' is far different from Internet chatting. 90% of the time you won't enjoy the face-to-face meeting.
Maybe because one or both of you has spent too much time on the computer and has neglected developing social skills from interacting with REAL people, and not internet profiles!0
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