I've been "Dating" a guy for a month now and he says he's NOT seeing anyone else but when I ask about boyfriend/girlfriend he says he's eventually looking for that but doesn't want to go too fast.
He holds my hand, even in public, and he'll lace his fingers with mine we've shared kisses, and when we're watching a movie he'll cuddle with me.
So are we in a relationship or not? I'm afraid to get attached because I don't want to be getting used without knowing it.
Secondly, how can I make him realize I'm girlfriend material?
Difference between "Dating" and "Boyfriend/Girlfriend" - GirlsAskGuys.com
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To me, dating, dating exclusively, and being boyfriend/girlfriend are 3 different things. Dating is just dating. Dating exclusively is when you agree not to see other people so you can see if there is something there. Having a real relationship and being boyfriend/girlfriend is when you've decided that yes, there is something there, and you start really incorporating that person into your life.
Wanna be girlfriend material? Keep being fun and don't pester him about defining the relationship.0