There's a girl I'm good friends with that will sometimes take up to 24 hours to respond to texts I send her but only very rarely doesn't respond. This bothers me because there's other people she texts that she doesn't take near that long to answer and she used to be faster responding. I know she isn't annoyed with me or anything because she still actively seeks out spending time with me, I just don't understand this behavior.
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Hmmm...maybe she doesn't see you as a potential partner. I know that if you were my friend and that I liked you, I would respond MUCH MUCH sooner and ALWAYS reply. But that's just me.
When you hang out, does she act like she likes you? (Looks at you longer than usual, touches you, pokes you, flirts, long tight hugs, always trying to look nice around you, etc). If she always looks like she just jumped out of bed when she sees you, always asking you for guy advice etc then it's def just friends. Try to find a place where it's just you two and lock eyes, then lean in to kiss her. See how she reacts. If she kisses you, laugh and say "How did that make you feel". If her reaction is negative, just say "I wanted to see if it would be weird to kiss a friend haha!" and play it off and don't bring it up again. If she said it felt really good, kiss her again :]
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