I started dating a guy who happens to be black from St.Vincent. It was our 6th date and we were at the park laughing a lot, playing trust games where I fall off high things and he catches me, and climbing rope walls etc. We were having lots of fun. At some point, I was sitting on a railing, with my legs stretched out to reach the railing in the other side. He started rubbing my legs while we talked. I am a dancer so my calves and thighs are very strong. He seemed very surprised it wasn't all fat. He squeezed me muscles and was like "you have very strong calves" I was like "I know, its cause I'm a dancer, my thighs are the same" he kept rubbing my legs but then started teasing me that because I had strong legs, that it meant they were manly... I just went with it and we laughed, but I didn't really like that joke. Part of me is wondering if he actually did find that unattractive and manly... For someone who comes from the St.Vincent or Jamaica area, can someone please tell me if having strong legs is a good or bad thing? If I'm not flexing they are most certainly soft and jiggly, like I have curves (hour glass figure) but its not all fat, since I'm in good shape so its a combination of muscle and fat. This comment is just really getting to me now. So please tell me what you think. Thank youa,
Was he joking or serious when he said my legs are manly?
What Guys Said 8
He was just joking. Teasing is just something we do1
ok, it's like a girl with biceps. it's kind of a turn off for most guys. girls/women are supposed to be soft and inviting, not rock hard. girls can lay in a girls lap, not a big deal. a guy isn't going to lay in another guys lap, unless of course, they're gay. it's good that you are in shape, but maybe he isn't ready for a modern woman?0
Fit and physically strong women are a turn on. My wife is stronger than me in her lower body (legs) and she knows it, always showing me here leg muscles on here thighs. We play wrestle a lot, and she is super competitive and hates to loose, and uses her legs for holds and leverage. All good fun and is just a part of our relationship that makes it different and we flirt with the wrestling stuff all the time. She will text me during the day and say stuff like just went up 4 flights of stairs today... making these leg muscles firmer... watch out... lol and I love it
You're fine, you're worrying too much.1
Wrap them around his head0
Muscular legs are beautiful hon <30
need pictures too see0
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