So, I met this girl through a dating site, we sent several messages back and forth, eventually I got her number. Her and I started dating roughly a month ago. We've been on four dates in that time, each time she was punctual, and she really enjoyed herself. After the second date, she was practically begging for me to kiss her on the third. We made out, a lot. On the fourth date, we went to her place. We watched movies, cuddled on the couch, went out for frozen yogurt, and pizza, and made out more. I'm sure we both had sex on our minds until her roommate walked in on us. I decided to take off a little bit later, we made out before I left, and she walked me outside her condo.
We were supposed to have a fifth date last Thursday, at a restaurant she had suggested. Thursday came around, she cancelled on me, saying that her HR manager was in town (she actually was) and wanted to take her and her coworker out for dinner. She asked if it was okay with me, and if we could reschedule. I said sure thing. She suggested Sunday (today) as she was driving out of town Friday and wouldn't be back until today. She wasn't sure what time exactly. I agreed.
Normally she's the type of girl that will reply to texts within an hour, but I haven't heard from her since Thursday. I've sent her a few texts over the course of those two days, and no response. I came up with the idea if I liked a photo or two of her on Facebook, she'd know I was thinking about her, and might respond to my texts. But when I checked to see if she was online today, I had noticed she removed me as a friend..
I decided since she hasn't texted me back, I'd call her. No answer, so I left a voice mail. I said I hope she was having a nice trip, and that I missed her. I kinda confessed to her how much I actually did care about her... maybe even loved her.. I also asked why she had removed me as a friend from Facebook, if we were still good to hang out later on today, and to call me back later. Six hours later, no response yet.
I'm pretty bummed right now... Is she playing hard to get with me, or genuinely not interested? Did I scare her off by being too clingy? I decided to wait it out for now, but might send her another message later today.
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"Did I scare her off by being too clingy?"
"I decided to wait it out for now, but might send her another message later today."
NO! You've already lost this girl because you acted too needy and clingy. She's history; let her go. For the next girl, act confident and give her the space she needs. Otherwise you'll make the same mistakes all over again.1