Which gender has it easier when it comes to dating and relationships, boyfriends/girlfriends, etc.? Do guys have it easier? or do girls have it easier?
I want to know your opinion.
In my own personal opinion, I think girls have it easier than guys, because since girls don't have to deal with rejection, because the guy is the one who takes the initiative when it comes to dating and relationships, like the guys asks the girl out, makes the first move, starts all the conversations and keeps them going, basically the guy has to start the talking, do all the talking, etc. While the girl just sits back and relax, and decides if the guy is good enough for her. Like the girl gets to call the shots.
I know that is tradition, but it's very tough for a guy who is shy and has social anxiety, not very outgoing, shyness hurts guys more than girls.
I know that there are some girls who do take the initiative and pursue the guy, and ask him out, make the first move, but it is very rare.
Also another reason why I think girls have it easier is because if a girl asks a guy out, the guy is more likely to say Yes than No, yes I am sure girls will get rejected too, but I think that girls will get rejected half the time compared to guys if they asked them out.
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I think girls have a much easier time. they accept or reject and get to reserve the highest judgement about their partner. if a guy doesn't make a move, another guy will. a quiet girl can get a boyfriend, a quiet guy... likely never.1