I have a guy friend I'm not particularly close to, but we hang out occasionally. There's never really been anything between us to suggest more than a platonic friendship (except that time he got drunk and cuddled me to death), but lately he's been talking to me more and inviting me to hang out more often.
So tonight I went to play video games at his house and we had a fun time. So I was leaving and I hugged him goodbye, but when I tried to break apart he kept holding onto me. Suddenly he went, "I'm curious," and before I knew it he was kissing me. It was a short kiss and I just kind of stood there afterward, and finally I went "...you're CURIOUS?!" Lol I may have been a bit taken off guard. But he just said "yeah" and smiled and walked away.
I don't have these feelings for him... I might if I wasn't already in love with someone else. :/ So I don't know what to do now. Should I ask him about it? Should I leave it alone and wait for him to bring it up? Should I pretend it never happened?
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Most likely, his mind believes that he put his feelings out there and now it's your obligation to accept or reject them.
That being said, he did it in a forward and inappropriate way and perhaps he needs to explain himself.
The way I see it, you have three options. You could just reject him outright, ask for an explanation, or pretend it never happened. Personally, I would ask for an explanation and then talk it through, but I'm bolder and much more insatiable than most.2