i'm somewhat guilty of this myself but notice the girls I'm really interested in and genuinely like don't seem to put that into account or care .
there more worried about looks/appearance , rumors , money , who I'm friends with etc . they have very low standards when it comes to finding guys who actually like them and truly interested
. wouldn't a relationship be more successful if we dated someone who actually wanted to be in a relationship with us than someone we just wanted to be with cause they were hot or had $
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You have different values than these girls. you can't change them just like they can't change u. if you want a girl like that then you need to become popular, hot or rich. if not then don't bother, you're just torturing yourself. sitting around waxing philosophical on why girls don't live life and think the way you want them to is not going to solve anything. you are probably shallow as well because I guarantee the girls you're talking about are not the nice nerdy girls who don't care about material things in life, just want a nice guy who treats them right...i mean those girls seem to have similar value systems as you, but you aren't interested in dating them...0