Three months ago, I met a guy on the internet. We had a coffee together and talked all day. At the end, he kissed me. We spent two weeks hanging with each other, flirting and the sexual tension rising. I am 20, he is 21. He told me he never had a serious relationship before, that they usually lasted only two weeks, because he got bored of the girls he was with, not because of sex but because they had nothing on their heads. We have been together for almost 4 months and he says he likes me, that I'm interesting. We go to the cinema, walk in parks, he even took me one week to his holiday house last month. He doesn't enjoy texting or chatting on Facebook very much, so when we're not together we don't talk a lot, but he does like to talk personally and makes an effort to text me even though he doesn't like it. At first, he didn't show a lot of feelings... there weren't a lot of kisses or hugs, just sexual tension. However, since I started making some of his sexual fantasies true, and the sex got very hot and wild, he is different... We cuddle, he hugs, kisses and teases me, calls me funny nicknames and enjoys making me mad. Still, he doesn't love. He said he will never say it unless he means it but that I shouldn't worry because he likes me and is happy and satisfied so he doesn't need another woman. He also said that men have feelings, they just take longer to happen but that if he didn't care about me, he would have left me after two weeks of dating. Is it possible that he is slowly falling in love with me? It seems that the more sex we have, the more he wants to have but also the more he says he is addicted to me.
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Sweety, he is falling in LUST with you ... and that's almost the same.
Many immature, selfish guys that reserve the love word are ONLY capable of lust and have so far to go & to learn/appreciate to actually love.
That said, most lovers and long term marriages speak to this communication bond that special to your relationship. I don't see why this backbone can't develop lust into love ... someday. Today is not the day you hope, it's just a greater sense of lust on his part.0