I´m dating a guy for more than one month and we are still seeing each other only once in a week. I somehow feel that he is probably dating other girls. Is there any way I can ask him? I would like to pose a question in a way: "hey, we are seeing each other for more than a month. I feel that you are acting more distant last two weeks, so I´m just wondering if you are seeing other girls. I´m not askig this because I want to put a pressure on you, but there are also other men that would like to date me and I don´t want to loose my time while you are figuring out what you really want form a woman."
Is this a good idea? I´m just afraid that I can loose him after I tell this.
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The last part of your statement "there are other men that would like to date me.." will have him chucking up the deuces to you in a heartbeat. Do NOT say that. Simply tell him that you would like it if the two of you could spend more than once a week together, not EVERYDAY though. I feel like if we were back in high school, then there would be NO excuse for him not to spend more than once a week with you; however, with age comes responsibility--meaning you're not his only priority. He has a social life, family that he probably visits, work, possible extracurricular activities/hobbies.0