I recently met someone online who I started to believe was a player. We had a really good first date. The chemistry was awesome. He played the sex card really early which made me nervous. He explained how he got bored easily and that's why he couldn't find the right person. That he was able to get in bed with every woman he dated the past year on the first date and that they all chased him. I asked how many women he had been with and while it was under 100 it was still a lot. I of course didn't sleep with him because that's not how I roll. The next day I waited till he contacted me first. I wasn't going to chase him. He was upset that I didn't contact him right away but I had told him I don't chase, I reciprocate. We started talking like we were going to continue seeing each other. I had red flags though and was really nervous about it. So I admitted the day after that that I was really scared I would get attached and he would hurt me. I never heard from him again. Why? Why did that one sentence make him go away? Was it he knew he was going to hurt me so he decided not to? Or was that an unattractive thing to say? Or did he realize it was going to be too hard to get in my panties? In the end I suppose I don't care because I feel like I saved myself some heart ache.
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Please, for your sake, stay away from this guy. He's the complete definition of a player and the reason he didn't contact you is because you weren't an easy "prey". Guys like that piss me off more than anything lol. Please stay away, he'll only end up hurting you.3