So I've been talking quite regularly with this girl, and we went out once... three weeks ago(I know).
She has been giving me excuses since she has been very busy in those past 3 weeks along with a serious event she doesn't want to talk about. Last week she was out of town seeing her sister graduate basic as well. Coming this week I saw if I could push for a second date, but she is playing "catch up" with her school work missing a week and all so I suggested we do something Friday. She said that was too far out for her to schedule something. Yeah, red flag for me.
We talk every day through text messaging but I quite frankly think she doesn't care. I feel like I could just disappear and she wouldn't care.
I feel like she is stringing me along. She really isn't all that interested in pursuing a relationship of any kind right now and I'm just there so she can text someone over the phone which is not the relationship I am looking for. She already knows what I am looking for I don't think she fully understands it though.
Should I just stop texting her? I have a hard time doing this and would rather confront her about it since I tend to like some sort of closure whether it is bad or good. So what should I do, just stop talking to her or confront her about my grievances?
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Walk away. She's not worth your time. A girl who is that busy/has other plans but wants to be with you will make every effort to find the time for you. I've been super busy and had to ask if I could move the date 2 weeks down the road but I asked and made it clear that I'd love to go on the date but had too much going on. So while 3 weeks isn't a lot in my books, the fact that she doesn't suggest alternative plans is a major major red flag. My response would have been, sure, I have time Friday between x and y. Or sorry, Friday doesn't work, but I have time Saturday.
She likes the attention. If she knows what you want and she's not stepping up, she's not worth your time.0