We have been dating for three years.
We are openly talking about getting married.
Very serious relationship.
But mon to Friday she says that we can't hang out in the evening
after we put her five year old to bed. Once he's out. I'm gone..
And it sucks for me because that leaves no time for us to spend
time with.. us...
She says she needs to clean and do her own stuff..
It does bug me, but I can't do anything about it..
I donno. kinda sucks.. opinions from anyone who is in her shoes?
Out of all nights, she doesn't want me to stay at night.
Wanted me to see them for a two hours and send me home
at his bed time.
i understand she needs her down time. But if we never see each other.
And talking about getting married... She says that we will have our
She may be doing her push me away thing again..
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I can't see why she would be like this after three years. If you are talking about getting married, then she should want her son to spend good amount of time with you. I can understand if she doesn't want him to see you there late at night (if she is trying to show him men and women can't spend the night together before married) but to not hang out until he is asleep sounds like she isn't as serious as you are. I am a single mother and I am not ready to be in a serious relationship. I have been seeing this guy for about 6 months and he can only come over once my son is sleeping and in bed for the night and I have finished housework for the day. If my son gets to bed too late or I have too much to do (house is a mess and I don't want company to see) then I tell him that its not a good night. IF and when I am ready to settle down and I consider this a serious relationship, I will absolutely allow him around my son. In fact, it will be really important for him to be around my son so I can see how they interact.0