ok ladies...i like this girl and I've being making the effort to hang out with her. I can't really tell if she likes me but I think she does from some signs I see. we hang out all the time in school. all the time I've tried to hang out outside of school with her, she bails out (that's how I feel). for the past week, she was talking about taking the same classes with me so we set up a time to meet today in school. we did meet and all and we hung out. she is leaving next week wednesday so she said we should hang out sometime before she lives. I told her I would stop by her house today sometime before seven and she said okay. I got to her house and I knocked, no one answered. as I was living, I saw her backyard and she was there siting down and she was talking on the phone so I figured that was why she couldn't here the knock. I called her name but she couldn't hear me so I went back and knocked on the door then someone else answered and asked for my name and then I told the person I was looking for (name). the she was like " hold on let me check what she is doing" then later on the same person came back and was like " em..she is kinda studying for finals right now and she doesn't want to be disturbed" or something like that. I was so mad. I just said "okay thanks" and I left. she could not even come herself and tell me she was busy and she wasn't even studying when I saw her outside. I was so shocked she would do something like that to me because at school we are so into each other...people even thought we were a couple at school.
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hm. well from what you're saying, it sems as though A) she doesn't like you OR B) she's trying to mess with your head
but if I were you I would talk to her privately. try saying something like "(name), I don't know if you've noticed but I like you. Telling you how I really feel isn't the easiest thing and you make it 10 times ahrder by ignoring me, lying to me, and leading me on. Are you trying to mess with my head for some kind of experiment? If you are, then its working. If you didn't want to hang out/be friends you should've said something in the first place..."
idk, something like that. but if you do say that, you have to have confidence, because if she ends up confessing to not liking you than you'll need that confidence to help with te rejection. if she does reject you, DONT be sad. obviously there's someone better out there for you. I hopethis helps. if it doesn't than I'm sorry. :) GOOD LUCK!0
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