I have this guy who I got chatting to at a bar in my lunch hour, he asked for my number and only texts me every morning to say 'morning sexy'...i reply back saying morning and asking how he is...and nothing back! I am finding the whole thing very irritating and extremely rude that he cannot answer me properly...and he is the one who is suppose to interested! I honestly thing his is not that bothered...i don't bother texting him unless he texts me...but that's all the interest I'm getting! can any of you fellas shine a light on this rude behavior!?
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Coming from a guy that this happened from and now that I am interested she is doing it back - haha gotta love mind games ;;
Reason why I did this to the girl I was interested in (knew her for 2 weeks) ::
My blood brother told me she was up on another dude at his house, my brother has EXCELLENT rep. with me and never has lied in the past over a female issue - which is why I help him through anything he needs, we have great communication.
Rather than attacking her and being involved in the jealousy game - I walked away and made her come to me...
(NOTE* - She was up on another guy, but she is that type of person; but I'm now realising that she can be dancing etc with someone else but be devoted WHEN ---> key point ---> when she is "with" someone meaning relationship)
Reason why she is doing this back - to my knowledge and my friends
She took the effort to make a move and declare that she "wants" me and I shunned her advance before *points up* ;; She took this as a form of rejection and wasnt going to tolerate it, now that I am interested again she is still 7/10th's interested in me ;; NOW that I am interested she is trying to make me realise that I need to fight for what I want, but at the same time she is pulling the ball really far in her court to make it seem unreasonable - but I have enough to make me feel comfortable.
Don't subject yourself to this type of b.s. if he has the balls to call you sexy etc but not enough balls to text you back then obviously he can't find the time and/or ego to converse with you ;; This should be setting off a red flag. Obviously we all have "the little monkey" over our backs that does this, and so if he's shy, it could mean he heard something he didn't like and he may be testing the waters before he jumps into the ocean =/
I would honestly stop responding to his texts all together - give it 3-4 days and if he is still texting you then confront him about what he's doing. Straight forward - call him and if he answers be like "How come you can text me morning sexy, but you can't find the time of day to actually talk with me? It seems like your not interested" DONT STOP ---> follow this with :: "How do you feel about this?" You have to be willing to listen to his point of view or else this guy will bottle up and be like "Whatever... I don't need this *click*... Guys have egos like that sadly to say.
Just writing from how it relates to my situation - let me know if anything proved relevant as I was mainly blabbering. Hope it helps you though!2
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