I mean every profile says 'no creepers' or 'if you are just looking for sex don't bother', well I'm a genuine guy looking for a relationship, yet every message I've sent has been ignored.
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This is something I've never really understood either.
When I was on a dating site, the only messages I completely ignored were creepy/nasty/inappropriate messages.
I think some people operate on the idea that they should only respond to those they're actually interested in, which to me seems pretty rude.
I actually made some friends while on a dating site because I'd respond to any nice, genuine message. If I wasn't interested, I'd say so. And men did the same for me. And a few friendships came from that, which is actually pretty cool.
I guess they just aren't interested so they don't want to SAY that, so they just ignore your message. It could be anything - it could be your profile details, your pictures, maybe that you just aren't their type or they have different interests/goals, it could be the message itself they didn't like. Unfortunately, you'll never know unless one of them actually tells you.
I'm sorry though, I know it sucks. No response is just cold, in my opinion.1
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