So this guy wanted to take me out today.. We've talked but never actually gone out on a date.
I don't normally go out on dates, so that is something I'm not very comfortable with.
When asked when I would be available, I didn't want to say no because it's just harsh but I didn't want to set a date either, so I said..
"I don't know when...I'll just see you at the gym",
*that's where we met*
At this point my brother was talking to me and I didn't hear what the guy was saying to me on the phone, so I just said...
to whatever he said,
and then he said..
"really, only at the gym?"
and again I said...
and in my head I thought 'oh that sounds harsh' ...and he sounded kind of bummed out, and it made me sad a bit, because his voice went dim, and then I think I heard him say...
his voice went almost to a whisper, but I wasn't sure,
then I said
and he said...
"you're so beautiful"
and I said...
because it was my reaction to what I had initially heard and I clicked on him ...
As I cut the call, I was thinking 'did he just call me beautiful, and I clicked?' :o kind of like 'did that just happen?'
Was that rude of me?I certainly wasn't trying to be.. but I can't stop thinking about it.. it was unintentional and I feel bad xD
- Somewhat Sad/disappointed0% (0)75% (3)43% (3)Vote
- Neutral/whatever/might call again0% (0)25% (1)14% (1)Vote
- Never call again/The person is rude100% (3)0% (0)43% (3)Vote
- Think or feel nothing of it/ might never call again.0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
Well, he asked you out and you rejected him by saying you'll just see him at the gym.
Then you apparently confirmed that he'll ONLY get to see you at the gym.
Then your response to a compliment was "bye" and hanging up on him.
That's pretty rude, yes. I understand you being uncomfortable, but you really did come off pretty cold. I really feel bad for him, poor guy.
If you like him, you'll DEFINITELY need to make en effort to rectify this. If a guy had done that to me, I'd probably leave them alone and back off. That's probably what he's going to be doing now.
I voted C.2