What this means? Or, most importantly, assure me why I should move on and how to do it fast?!
Long story short: My boyfriend and I was in a relationship for one year, he cheated on me and lied within the 8 month, then the relationship started going downhill. He then cheated on me again, the day before he broke up after I told him something wasn't feeling right. He never told me he cheated, none of the times, I had to find out formyself. He dumped me because he wanted to be single and mingle, and because I didn't trust him, and acted like a total a**hole, but kept texting me everyday anyways. I cut contact with him 2 weeks after we broke up, so he went crazy missing me and came back to get me back. I said I wasn't sure, but we started dating anyways days later. He told me for sure we were going to get together again because he was so sorry, and I was so happy, but after some weeks again, he wasn't at all sure if he ever wanted to get together. So he comes up with different reasons why we can't be in a relationship, and I get sad and frustrated, and ends up crying a lot and being jealous. This; because he already found someone else he's dating. He's now dating me and her, but refuses he's dating her. So he breaks up with me, AGAIN, and goes right to the other girl and invites her on a date.
So, am I just a complete moron, or is he an a**hole, or both?! How can I get over him? He's making me crazy, I can't think nor sleep nor eat.
Please give me some advice on what the hell he was doing and what I can do to get over this? :(
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wow,he screws up several times and you take him back? That was your main mistake, the a**hole cheated on you and when you busted him you bruised his ego, then he misses u? no, he misses being in control of things and when you gave him the power back..again,he did the same sh*t ..read narcissitic behavior,u will see him there, run from him, he will tear you apart, that is not love, that is a douche bag who will do his dirt to the next girl as well. Wish her luck and pity her,he is her problem now,they DO NOT change,you will heal form this.,speaking from experience0