So I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and a month now, she does absolutly everything I have ever wanted a girl to do.
My best friend that I usually go to advice doesn't like me dating her because I am always with her and I haven't hung with him in a while which is wrong I know.
But what since I can't talk to him I need your guys's advice please, since she does everything I have everything wanted I don't know if I am taking it for granted or its because I hang with her all the time. I'm moving in two years and if I can figure everything out then she's coming with
So what should I do since I'm kind of losing feelings, I want to go out and hit on girls but I can't she doesn't like me texting girls and she would never talk to another guy and she's proven it. And at the same time I want to have her...
Please help with my situation thanks everyone.
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A relationship should never restrict partners from talking to the other sex. It is just unhealthy. There should be enough trust to know that neither one of you will do something to hurt the other.
Yet, going out and hitting on girls IS taking it a step to far. Sure, there is no harm in just chatting with some girls, but if you start actively flirting and hitting on girls, it isn't really acceptable when you are in a relationship.
You should balance you time that you have time for your best friend AND your girlfriend. It isn't fair to your best friend to just spend so much time with your girlfriend. I am sure your girlfriend will understand if you hang out with your best friend more and if she doesn't, you should talk to her about why she has a problem with that.
What kind of feelings are you losing? The feeling of being in love perhaps? That is to be expected after more than a year of a relationship. This isn't a bad thing, not at all. The pink shades of being in love are slowly coming off and you start to see your girl for who she really is, faults and all. It is very much true that love is blind. Yet, you should not stop loving her. You have to make the change of being in love to loving your girlfriend.
If you are comfortable with being open and honest to your girlfriend, you should talk to her about this.1
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