So I have these 3 guys that seem pretty interested not only in sleeping with me but my personality as well. I'm dating all of them , not in a relationship just going out, investing time with them and I'm sleeping with all of them. Some guys I guess are going to call me a slut, I am going to disregard those comments as those men believe in double standards. My question is, is it wrong to invest emotionally and physically with them until one decides to make a move ?
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I don't think it is a double standard (RE: unfair) to hold men and women to different standards as they are different. You can't expect a woman to bench as much as a man or to be as tall (a general rule). For a woman to sleep with many men, there is no merit as there is no challenge (this can depend on the men that she has slept) but for a man to sleep with many women, that is impressive and therefore exceptional unless they are trashy and easy.
I was in a situation with a girl who had multiple other guys but I couldn't accept that because I had "feelings" for her so I just distanced myself, I felt like she must have been talking to them the same way she spoke to me which made me question how genuine she could be. Anyway, I still think fondly of her but she just wasn't ready to commit to anyone.0