My ex broke up with me 2 and a half weeks ago. In the beginning I as devastated, she broke up with me over text message saying that she needed space etc, a really low move in my opinion.
During that first week, I have tried to speak with her family, went to her house and spoke to her nan. She said she didn't want a boyfriend right now blah blah. Since she blocked me on Facebook, I decided to write her a letter, telling her about how we met and all the good times we shared and then said I'm moving on. The letter was about 5 pages long lol
Anyway I been doing some reading online and the majority of people say your ex will come back. In that letter I made it clear I will never contact her again and that is what I am doing. No contact rule is the best thing in my opinion.
Ok anyway, so I have cut contact, is there any chance she will realize what she has lost and try and get in touch with me? If she, when? one month, 2 months? If she does come back, I'm gonna think long and hard if I want her back.
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People do always say an ex will come back...but a lot of times, the caveat to that is they come back once it's too late. So even though you're hurting now, with time it really will get better. That doesn't mean you still won't miss her sometimes or even in the back of your mind wish you were still with her, maybe. But you'll come to terms with being single and be content with it--at least that's the hope. The worst thing you could do is hop from relationship to relationship without coming to terms with your feelings on your last girlfriend.
She may never be interested in associating with you again, but if she does come back and it's to be your girlfriend, you may a) not want a relationship or b) already be with someone (better than her).0