So, I wanted to check it out and made a profile. I didn't really expect any messages because the details in it were pretty sparse. I just had a picture and some basic info, which is all required. An hour in though, there's like 9 messages. Mostly "hey :)" and "hello", and one about a coffee date in an hour, and one to get cotton candy (lol, he sounds fun). Does it always happen this fast though? And if I'm not interested, should I reply and say that? Or if I don't reply is that enough to say I'm not?
It's not like most of them directly asked me out (only a few). They're just starting a conversation, but I don't know if there's a point if I don't want to go out with them. I can't keep a conversation with so many people anyway, it just wouldn't work. So if it's polite to say something anyway to guys I'm not into, then what do I say? Is "Sorry, I'm not interested." too snobbish? How do you phrase it? Should I even reply at all? I feel like I'm just not familiar with online dating etiquette, so some help would be nice. Thanks.
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I didn't get any messages back from the people I sent them to. I didn't think anyone can see them.
If you're into the guys please just say "I'm sorry I'm not interested." Please do that.
It's a good thing to do, no it's not snobbish.2