My cousins are players and they get many girls with one night stands, relationships. Etc. I have only had one girlfriend for two years. Its been a year that I am single. I am going to ask out a girl today, but I keep thinking of how hard it is for me to get a girls attention, and how easy it is for them. They do mistreat women by playing with her emotions as they have told me, but I wonder what it would be like if I did that. Should I start acting like them instead of being myself?
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe take a page out of their book by taking more chances, showing your fun side, not being afraid to be seductive. There are guys who sleep with a lot of women because they are genuinely sexy, fun and at the same time, safe and respectful. While many women may fall for these guys, they are often honest from the onset and the women walk away feeling fairly good about the situation, even if it didn't end with a relationship.
Then there are guys who are liars and manipulators, who women often regret sleeping with at all. These guys care more about the ego boost of having women care for them and want them and then rejecting them. The sex is just a bonus. These guys have tons of drama in their life that often comes back to bite them in the ass.
The first type of guy can easily have a relationship as much as casual sex. He's straightforward, doesn't hide his sexuality and works to make sure women find sex pleasurable and fun. This makes women want to be with him. The second type attracts crazier women and often these guys end up falling for girls who are even more manipulative than they are, end up being beat up by some crazy cheater's boyfriend, end up with slashed tires, etc.0