now I know most of you will start bashing me for being a loser , and in no way am I blaming women for me being a failure , but it just sucks being lonely , 3rd year university , almost 20 years old and never one girlfriend , never one female friend, never one date , never one hug , never one smile , never one opportunities because no girl found me attractive despite the hours I spend in the gym that I didn't want to , or the money I spent trying hairstyles that I didn't like but girls liked and clothes I didn't need , or forcing myself to be someone I'm not by talking to people I don't know , and still no girl likes me . Being lonely to me is much worse than my 14 years I spend in Lebanon which is not a good country to live in especially now , but at least I had an excuse to why I was always single ( I would get beaten up by the dad or by her family) . I've literally tried everything , therapy , school clubs ,online dating, bars , events , volunteering , cold approaches,trying to fake that I was something big , talking to them in class hoping that they would at least want to be friends . They never give me a chance to show or do anything because I am not good looking and I would sell my soul to become good looking , but unfortunately that will never happen . I've tried everything and I went from optimistic and happy that I'm in Canada now to depressed and borderline suicidal . As stated above how can an ugly guy get a girlfriend?
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Dude I worked out and I am in ideal shape and it's still hard to find a girl. I have tried the approaching thing but I suck big time at it I am to awkward and shy. I started doing online dating and I have been on 4 dates in two weeks from girls I meet on there. Online dating though you will need thick skin girls are rude and heartless lol. Also it doesn't always work I tried it a few years ago from where I used to live, which was in a 4 million person metropolis and thought oh I will have all kinds of women to go out with and I didn't get a damn thing. Now I am in a town of lke 27,000 people and no other big towns close by and I got 4 dates pretty quickly so who knows.1